How big of an unwarranted sense of importance do you have to have to genuinely think that anything a woman may use to get off is automatically comparable to a man? Most vibrators are not even phallic. They’re tools.
Even vibrators that are made to resemble a penis are not equivalent to a sexbot. They’re equivalent to a fleshlight, and that’s not what we’re talking about here.
Sexbots are not made to be tools, they’re made to resemble real women as closely as possible. They’re not something to masturbate with, they’re something to have sex with. Not only are they only appealing to men who don’t view consent or an emotional connection as an important part of sex, using them would only further condition men to believe that sexually, women are to be treated like objects.
Imagine being so misogynistic that you gender anyone who would be interested in sexbots as male and attempt to use sexbots as more “men are evil” bullshit. Many women would be all over male sexbots too, you know.
You’d have to be incredibly ignorant and misogynistic towards female sexuality and women’s desires/autonomy to think many women wouldn’t be all over sexbots.
Hell, you see this character, right here?
I’m glad he’s not real because I’d legitimately fear for his virtue. Why? Because he’s a robot – not even a sexbot – just a regular robot and yet the amount of women who thirst after him and want to fuck him is incredibly high.
Oh and also? Women objectify men as well. Stop gendering things that aren’t gendered already, jeez.
So, the OP compared sexbots to vibrators, then Dasha tried to compare it to yaoi fanfiction, and now you’re comparing it to a videogame character that women find attractive?
Gee it almost seems like you’re avoiding the fact that these female sex bots are designed by men, for men, and so far exclusively used by men. You’d have a much better argument if you could show me a woman who’s designing male sex bots, or even a single lesbian who wants to buy a female one. Wonder why you can’t?
can’t wait for the near future when vocal genderists will be as embarrassed about their past politics as people are about their dramatic emo- or superwholock-phases, except with the added weight of having called for the murder of feminists lol
And the added weight of encouraging a trend that has lead to thousands to irreversibly alter their once healthy bodies, tying them to a lifetime of medical care all for a goal that was impossible to begin with.
Though I’m sure most of them who are teens today will just transition into their suburban straightie lives just saying “ha ha boy that sure was a wild phase I went through” without giving any further thought to the wider consequences.
just got my first hate message! am i tumblr-famous yet?
I got this exact same message too! I think it might just be a bot or at the very least some random troll. Not sure if it’s actually meant to be hate though, just obnoxious. 🤷♀️
It reads a lot like a troll omg. You’re right, though! If it’s meant to be hate it’s unintentionally hilarious.
some of y’all and the media is so disgusting and overwhelmingly sexist it’s ridiculous. justin bieber spent 2-3 years being a massive dick to everyone for no reason, putting people’s lives in danger by speeding down streets, and sleeping with underaged girls. he goes on stage singing “sorry” and crying and all is forgiven. he still sells a ton, still has huge concerts, no one cares. but ariana grande literally has 22 of her fans blown up in front of her and people only gave a fuck for 3 months? she is groped at a FUNERAL and all people can talk about is how short her dress is. she leaves a toxic relationship with a substance abuser and SHE is blamed for his death. y’all really hate women!
Please I know you talked about deleting asks about genital attraction but I’m freaking out. I’ve had so many panic attacks over this.
Urgent – is it OK to identify as asexual if it’s too painful and hard to be sexually open to all genitals??? Or can I date and just not have sex if Im uncomfortable or is that bad
[I’m assuming all of these asks were sent by the same person since they were sent right in a row and are about the same content matter]
Calling people who were assigned male at birth “amabs” is dehumanizing. Not all people who were assigned male at birth have the same set up genitals-wise. You’re still transmisogonistic if you ID as ace specifically to avoid sexual interactions with people who were AMAB.
Ding as ace to avoid an entire group of people who are diverse and varied is gross.
You don’t have to have sex with anyone! Not having sex with people is okay. You don’t have to have sex with everyone you date. You don’t have to have sex with anyone you date! Any time you have sex with someone you should feel able to talk about what makes you comfortable, what makes you uncomfortable, what bits you are okay with, and what bits you aren’t okay with. [here is a good resource for that sort of thing, warnings for talk of menstruation, pregnancy, and general sex talk].
tl;dr: IDing as ace specifically to avoid having sex with people who were assigned male at birth (a large and varied group of people) is transmisogonistic. You don’t have to have sex with anyone. Talk about things with your partner(s) beforehand.
–Ell
Did you wake up this morning and think “I’m a terrible homophobe who doesn’t really understand sexuality so how about I push that on a scared lesbian”?
Imagine still thinking you’re on the right side of history when you’re so homophobic that you’ve forced a lesbian to believe she needs to identify as asexual because you’ve made her so ashamed of her orientation and that’s the only way she thinks she’s “allowed” to say no to sex she doesn’t want. Absolutely unbelievable.
Thinking a woman’s boundaries is just some little rule you can break coz you’re a ~bisexual rebel~ is definitely rapist behavior.
Do you guys catch this? Do you get how bihets purposefully break lesbian boundaries, and then play coy and want to “talk it out over lunch” essentially a date. After I have clearly said how uncomfortable and rapey that behavior is. Do you see how the bihet version of “the nice guy” is used to get what they want? I rest my case. This is a woman I have no doubt would sexually assault me if she had the chance. The emotional manipulation of breaking boundaries then attempting to break them even more but disguised as “coffee date” is the most disturbing thing I have witnessed today. Don’t worry she was reported for sexual harassment on the site.
Justine Troondeau 